So here is Kellen's birth story:
I had been going into the doctor weekly since 36 weeks and was already starting to dilate then. By 37 weeks I was 80% effaced and 2cm dilated. At 38 weeks I was 3cm and still 80% effaced. I thought he would come early but didn't necessarily want him to. I wanted him to be fully ready to come out on his terms. At 39 weeks, my doctor stripped by membranes and two days later (not quite 48 hours, though) labor started.
My water broke with Carter the night of his due date so I kind of thought my water would break with Kellen too. But nope. I was having contractions throughout the day on Tuesday, February 9th. It seemed like my contractions started getting stronger the minute Ricky walked in the door from work (big blesssing!) at about 6pm that evening. They were getting closer together and more intense as the night progressed. We continued with our usual nightly activities, putting Carter to bed around 8:30-9ish. They started getting pretty regular and more intense (about 5-7 mins apart, lasting a minute or so) around 10:00pm. The doctor did tell me that if I went into labor and delivery at any point after he stripped my membranes they wouldn't turn me away, but I was still pushing it because I was hesitant to go in! But finally Ricky convinced me that it was time to call his parents and get ready to go. His parents just live 15 minutes from our house. So around 10:30, we called his parents and they came and picked up Carter in the dead of his sleep.
We get to the hospital around 11:30pm and I was already 4cm dilated. Of course they admitted me. They told me I could get the epidural any time I was ready. I was like, "um, ok, now!" But really, contractions do hurt, but they weren't the worst thing by any means. Although I didn't get any further than 4-5cm dilated before I had the epidural, I can say that I've had much worse pain than those contractions. Also, let me just say, I LOVE epidurals. They give the sensation as if you are sitting in a jacuzzi. I'll take one a day, please? I get so sad when they start to wear off.
I am lucky I got to the hospital when I did though, because much later I may not have been able to get the epidural (if labor progressed quickly, which it did). The doctor came in and broke my water, then I got the epidural. That mades things speed up immensely! After about 10-15mins. of pushing, sweet little dark haired Kellen was born at 1:38am on February 10th (only 2 hours from when we arrived at the hospital!) For this reason, I think i will get induced next time to make sure I can make it to the hospital in time and get an epidural!
I did get a second degree tear once again. And although some aspects of recovery were bad, overall it hasn't been as bad as it was with Carter. And once again, my mom SAVED me. She came and stayed with us for almost 2 weeks total. Between her and Ricky's parents, we were definitely helped immensely!!! And we are so grateful to those ward members and neighbors who brought us dinner and gifts. Those meals are heaven sent after you have a baby!
(he came out with some long nails and scratched his face)














































